How to say family members in Chinese

For Chinese language beginners, you must want to know how to say family members in Chinese. Like, how to say father & mother in Chinese, how to say brother & sister in Chinese, how to say grandmother & grandfather in Chinese, and how to say uncle & aunt in Chinese.

family tree in Chinese

Family members in Chinese

Family members in ChineseFamily members in English
爸爸 (bà ba)dad or father
妈妈 (mā ma)mom or mother
哥哥 (gē ge)elder brother
弟弟 (dì di)younger brother
姐姐 (jiě jie )elder sister
妹妹 (mèi mei )younger sister
伯伯 (bó bo )uncle (father’s elder brother)
叔叔 (shū shū )uncle (father’s younger brother)
舅舅 (jiù jiu ) )uncle (mother’s brother)
姑姑 (gū gu ))aunt (father’s sister)
阿姨 (ā yí )aunt (mother’s sister)
爷爷 (yé ye )grandfather (father’s father)
奶奶 (nǎi nai )grandmother (father’s mother)
外公 (wài gōng ))grandfather (mother’s father)
外婆 (wài pó )grandmother (mother’s mother)
Family members in Chinese list

father: 爸爸 or 父亲
mother: 妈妈 or 母亲

To say “father”, we will use “爸爸” or “父亲” in Chinese. And to say “mother” we will use “妈妈” or “母亲” in Chinese.

Differences between 爸爸 and 父亲 / 妈妈 and 母亲

Actually, “爸爸” is like “dad” in English, and “妈妈” is like mom. They’re used in spoken language. And if it’s for official usage of “father” and “mother”. Then you should use 父亲 or 母亲. Especially the document certificate, like, as birth certificates, contracts, and other law-related documents.

Family members’ differences between the Chinese and English language

In English, there’s no specific name to say brothers, sisters, aunts and uncles. However, the Chinese language has a very specific name for family members. Like, father’s side, mother’s side and the order.

That said, In Chinese, we use more specific family members’ names than in English.

As for family members’ orders, we will use numbers to describe them. For the eldest one we will use “大”, which means “big”.

for examples:
eldest brother (大哥), eldest sister (大姐), father’s eldest sister (大姑), father’s eldest brother (大伯), mother’s eldest brother (大舅), mother’s eldest sister (大姨)

Similarly, for the youngest one, we will use “小”, which means “little”.

Youngest brother (小弟), youngest sister (小妹), father’s youngest sister (小姑), father’s youngest (小叔), mother’s youngest brother (小舅), mother’s youngest sister (小姨)

For others, we will use numbers directly, 二(second), 三(third), 四(fourth), 五(fifth), or something like that. Like 二哥(2nd elder brother), 二伯(2nd father’s elder brother), 五叔(5th father’s younger brother).

In Chinese culture, the father’s side are more important than the mother’s side, or men than women.

六舅(6th mother’s brother), 三姑(3rd father’s sister ), 四姨(4th mother’s sister). As you can see, We will ignore the elder or younger when speaking of the father’s sisters, and mother’s side brothers & sisters.

In a word, father’s sisters and mother’s side brothers & sisters, we won’t consider elder or younger. Only the father side uncle need to consider elder or younger. Keep that in mind!

Another difference is the grandmother & grandfather. In English, no matter if it’s the mother’s father or father’s father, all use grandfather, with no specific name.

But in Chinese, we use 爷爷 to say father’s father, use 奶奶 to say father’s mother. And we use 外公 to say mother’s father, use 外婆 to say mother’s mother. Speaking grandmother & grandfather more specific than in English.

NOTE: 叔叔 and 阿姨 are the most frequently used when you meet someone who is older than you but they’re not your relatives at all. Especially when you need help from a stranger you met.

Here is the family tree/members in Chinese song, sing along with me at the end of my YouTube video. And don’t forget to subscribe to my channel.

爸爸的爸爸叫什么 (bà ba de bà ba jiào shén me )

爸爸的爸爸叫爷爷 (bà ba de bà ba jiào yé ye )

爸爸的妈妈叫什么 (bà ba de mā ma jiào shén me )

爸爸的妈妈叫奶奶 (bà ba de mā ma jiào nǎi nai )

爸爸的哥哥叫什么 (bà ba de gē ge jiào shén me )

爸爸的哥哥叫伯伯 (bà ba de gē ge jiào bó bo )

爸爸的弟弟叫什么 (bà ba de dì di jiào shén me )

爸爸的弟弟叫叔叔 (bà ba de dì di jiào shū shu )

爸爸的姐妹叫什么 (bà ba de mèi mei jiào shén me )

爸爸的姐妹叫姑姑 (bà ba de mèi mei jiào gū gu )

妈妈的爸爸叫什么 (mā ma de bà ba jiào shén me )

妈妈的爸爸叫外公 (mā ma de bà ba jiào wài gōng )

妈妈的妈妈叫什么 (mā ma de mā ma jiào shén me )

妈妈的妈妈叫外婆 (mā ma de mā ma jiào wài pó )

妈妈的兄弟叫什么 (mā ma de xiōng dì jiào shén me )

妈妈的兄弟叫舅舅 (mā ma de xiōng dì jiào jiù jiu )

妈妈的姐妹叫什么 (mā ma de jiě mèi jiào shén me )

妈妈的姐妹叫阿姨 (mā ma de jiě mèi jiào ā yí )

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